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Entry #4
I've been dwelling on the fact that I've been getting old lately. It's not enough that I realise this for myself, some people even feel the need to point it out to me (WolfBlitz2's comment).
I read a lot of threads in the forums, many of which no longer make sense (from my current perspective - they might have done at one point in time) to me. Some of the posts in these threads I read are on completely unrelated matters to thread subject, but they all relate to the same kind of thing; "My parents don't understand me", "I'm being controlled by my parents", blah de blah.
When I check out the profiles of the people posting these comments, they're all between 13 - 18 years of age. And believe me, I felt the same sort of thing when I was in that age range... However, if you're in that situation and unless you're getting some sort of physical/mental abuse, getting lectures off your parents, or feeling that you're being controlled by them, is completely natural.
It takes becoming an adult (yeah, I know - long time to wait for those of you still in that age bracket, but it'll come around sooner than you think) to realise that your parents are just bigger versions of you. They're just big kids, who went through similar situations to you young ones, way back when. Circumstances might have changed a little - you got busted for something you might have been looking at on the internet or on your computer, they got busted for something they managed to get on video or in print.
All of this is very difficult to accept from a teenager's point of view, given that it's stereotypically uncool to agree with anything anyone over the age of 20 says or writes, so I'm probably wasting my time in writing all of this and am probably just wasting space here....
But, to give those young guys an idea of where I'm coming from, many of my friends have started families recently. My best friend, who I was Best Man for back in September 2006, had his first son last June. My friend and his wife are still the same people they were before, and I've known both of them since I was in my teens.
All I'm trying to say if you're young, like it or not, believe it or not, is that we're all big kids at heart and all have similar goals in mind. Even (and in particular) the people who bring you up.
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